How can I learn to open up more around guys?

November 7th, 2009 | by admin |

how can I learn to open up more around guys? when I first start talking to them its good but then I get really shy, how can I open up more around guys what can I talk to them about? I’m a really nice person but I always have this fear that they are making fun of me or something what can I do?

A good start is to ask of what hobbies does he has.
Believe me he will open a conversation at this point .
Try to listen with intrest,and prompt more questions on the subject .
So he does the talking you do the listening and he will think the world of you
"GUARANTEED"

  1. 7 Responses to “How can I learn to open up more around guys?”

  2. By paykayyy on Nov 7, 2009 | Reply

    ur jus like me =) lmaooo .. just have confident and say w/es on ur mind… be urself. it wrks =)
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  3. By Vince on Nov 7, 2009 | Reply

    it depends if ur ugly then ur scrwed no matter wat
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    am a guy so i know dis

  4. By Sketch on Nov 7, 2009 | Reply

    FRIENDS!!! have your friends with you, they will grant you a confidence boost and if things go wrong they are there for you to fall back onto.
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  5. By mitchchan on Nov 7, 2009 | Reply

    you have to be comfortable in your own skin. just be who you are and don’t ever try to be someone you’re not.

    all the best. men aren’t different than women if you think about it.
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  6. By Alexandra on Nov 7, 2009 | Reply

    once you realize that guys are just like us you will be all good. Just don’t worry about looking foolish because guys are very easy going and they won’t care
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  7. By Adot S on Nov 7, 2009 | Reply

    remind yourself that we are all human, under neath the clothes we are all flesh and bones..no matter how confident he seems, hes insecure about something, no matter how mean he is hes nice, no matter how ignorant he is he’s smart, no matter how perfect he seems, hes flawed..

    in other words remind yourself hes a human, not some god like figure, he lives breathes and puts his pants on one leg at a time like everyone else

    so i’d say be yourself, don’t try to impress the guy ever because if he does start to like you, he doesen’t like the real YOU, he likes your represenative…

    IThey arent making fun of you, you gotta let that thought go, guys get just as nervous as females
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  8. By manny k. on Nov 7, 2009 | Reply

    A good start is to ask of what hobbies does he has.
    Believe me he will open a conversation at this point .
    Try to listen with intrest,and prompt more questions on the subject .
    So he does the talking you do the listening and he will think the world of you
    "GUARANTEED"
    References :

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